I shall pass this way but once…

“I shall pass this way but once, therefore if there be any kindness I can show or any good that I can do, let me do it now for I shall not pass this way again.”

My great grandmother wrote this quote on an index card for each of her five great grandchildren to memorize. I don’t remember how old I was, probably 8 or 9 at the time, but it has stuck with me. I’ve used it in high school essays and college applications… and always as a simple sort of motto to live by.

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in ourselves, whether it be centered around a personal problem or looking for recognition from others for a job well-done. And through these oh-so-natural human actions, we forget to be a light for others.

“In the same way, let your light shine before men, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.”

Matthew 5:16

If you’re in a funk, if you’re lost or sad or in a place where you feel like you can’t make a difference in another’s life, do your best to show kindness or do good. Be a light. You can… Even if it seems small or insignificant.

Yesterday, I was running on the trail along the river near my apartment, and an older man on a three-wheeled, sitting bike with a brightly colored flag rode by and gave me the biggest smile and wave. As small of a gesture as it may seem, it really made me happy. I’d been feeling off and that brief interaction brightened my day.

If you know me, you know I can’t help but smile. When I’m happy, I smile. When I’m feeling awkward, I smile. Sad or mad? I’m likely smiling. It’s a natural thing, whether I like it or not, I’m a smiler. People notice it… sometimes it’s like, “why on earth are you smiling right now?!” and other times, a smile is more fitting in the situation and it’s genuineness is appreciated.

I’m smiling through the bad days and of course, the good days too. Just as I smiled and dialed through those sales calls a couple months ago, I’m gonna smile and TRIAL with this life I’m living. I’m still unsure, but since I shall pass this way but once, I intend to make my journey worthwhile… Always trying to show a little kindness and do a bit of good along the way!